Craig, I neglected to mention that small VMs write to tape, it is large ones that fail consistantly. A 1.5 TB VM will never write to tape while Symantec is installed, however a 200 GB VM does.
I have not excluded any ports, but have done these steps in the Symantec console
add security risk exception , folder c:\qstar
add security risk exception , folder l:\ (this is the qstar cache)
add security risk exception , folder y:\
add application exception C:\QStar\svc\qwsd_server.exe
add application exception C:\QStar\svc\qs3svc_server.exe
add application exception C:\QStar\svc\qserver.exe
add application exception C:\QStar\svc\_cbfsmount.exe